When I got divorced, there were things that I was expecting but LOTS of things I wasn't expecting. I could write a novel on the whole experience. But one thing that sticks out in particular is how unprepared I was for the number of married individuals who would reach out and ask me for support. They would ask "how did you know it was time?" "did you use an attorney?" and most often "how did you set up a new life on your own?" A friend recently said "You are kind of like a div

When a relationship ends—whether through divorce, separation, or another significant transition—we often assume we're grieving the other person. While that is certainly part of the experience, I've come to believe that many of us are grieving something even larger.